The Gift of Kindness: A Deliberate Act of Love

What is the gift of Kindness 💛 and how is it a deliberate act of love?

Kindness is the 7th gift of your 12 gifts in 12 days - Your Blueprint for a Meaningful Life and is one of the most powerful presents you can give this holiday season and beyond. Just imagine for a moment: what would the world look like if every single person practiced a little more kindness? Think about the ripple effect of small, thoughtful actions—a simple smile, a heartfelt compliment, or lending a hand when someone needs it most.

Today’s Gift is Kindness -the simple but powerful act of making someone’s day brighter.

What Is Kindness?

Kindness is an intentional action that shows care, compassion, and concern for others. It doesn’t require grand gestures or expensive gifts. Often, it’s the smallest acts—a word of encouragement, holding a door open, or even listening with patience—that leave the biggest impression. When you give kindness, you not only brighten someone else’s day but also create joy within yourself.

Science backs this up! Studies show that acts of kindness can increase levels of oxytocin—sometimes called the “love hormone”—which boosts feelings of warmth and trust. Being kind can also lower stress, reduce anxiety, and even improve your overall health. It’s like a gift that keeps on giving, both for the giver and the receiver.

Kindness creates connections, fosters trust, and spreads positivity.

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A Kind Moment In My Life
I remember a day ---not too long ago ---when I was waiting in the drive-thru line at my favorite coffee shop. Now, I’ll be honest—I wasn’t feeling particularly patient. (especially since I needed my coffee)… you know how that feels right? Anyway… My “to-do list” was long, and I was hoping this drive-through line would move faster… so I could get my coffee and get back to work.

When I finally got to the window to pick up my coffee, the barista handed it to me with a big smile and said, “Your order has been paid for by the person ahead of you.” I was stunned! At that moment, my focus shifted entirely. Here I was, caught up in my busyness, and someone else—someone I didn’t even know—had taken the time to show a little kindness.

That my friend, is Kindness.

It wasn’t about the money, of course. It was the thoughtfulness behind it—the reminder that even in our rushed, hectic lives, we can take a moment to think about someone else.

That simple act of kindness turned my whole day around, like a warm hug I didn’t even know I needed.

How Can You Show the Gift of Kindness?

Here are three simple action items you can implement starting today:

1. Give Compliments Freely: The next time you notice something positive about someone, speak up! Maybe a co-worker has a great idea, or your friend is wearing a color that suits them perfectly. Let them know. Genuine compliments are an easy way to lift someone’s spirits.

2. Pay It Forward: Have you ever been in a coffee shop and had someone pay for your drink? It’s a small act, but it leaves a big impact (just me on this one, I know). These little surprises can make someone’s day.

3. Be Patient and Present: In a world full of distractions, offering someone your full attention is an act of kindness in itself. Whether it’s listening to a friend vent about their day or helping a neighbor carry their groceries… being fully present shows that you care.

Let’s Wrap This Up

Kindness is not just for the holidays; it’s a lifestyle. How can you make it part of your everyday routine? Start by practicing Self-Kindness. You can’t pour from an empty cup, so take time to care for yourself and speak kindly to yourself. When you’re gentle with your own heart, it becomes easier to extend that same kindness to others.

Start today and make every day, a day full of intentional acts of Kindness.

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