Self-Empowerment:đ± The Fifth Stage and The Fastest Way to Rise as a Leader
Great leaders know that the fastest way to rise is to help others do the same - Self-empowerment is the fifth stage of leadership growth.
Let me tell you a story about my friend and former colleague, Marcus.
Marcus wasnât the loudest voice in the room, and he certainly wasnât the one trying to climb the ladder fastest. But somehow, everyone wanted to work on his team. He had this quiet confidence about himânot the kind that boasted about his wins, but the kind that showed up to help you win.
I remember one conversation we had over lunch. He said, âYou know, I realized a while ago that my real job isnât to manage tasksâitâs to coach people. When they grow, the work gets done better than I ever couldâve done it alone.â
I watched Marcus transform average performers into rockstars, not because he micromanaged or held all the answers, but because he believed in people before they believed in themselves. He showed them how to leadâand in turn, he rose right along with them.
Thatâs the essence of Self-Empowerment.
Itâs the final stage of personal leadership growthâand honestly, itâs where you level up.
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What Most Leaders Donât Know (but Need to)
Hereâs the truth thatâs hard to swallow: a lot of folks who land leadership roles still act like the job is about them.
They focus on projects, deadlines, and deliverables. They obsess over results but miss the very people responsible for those results. Theyâre doing the work, but theyâre not coaching. Theyâre chasing productivity, but theyâre not developing people.
Why?
Because no one taught them otherwise.
We promote high performers thinking theyâll lead the same way they workedâbut leading isnât about doing more yourself. Itâs about helping others do their best. The best leaders realize that success in leadership shifts from personal achievement to shared empowerment.
And until a leader makes that shift, theyâll keep wondering why their teamâs not engaged, why turnover is high, or why their results have remained the same.
Be a Leader of People, Not Just Projects
At this stage in your growth journey, youâve already put in the work. Youâve developed yourself, gained confidence, and probably earned some stripes. But if youâre ready for the next level of impact, itâs not about you anymore.
Itâs about who you lift.
Self-empowerment means shifting your mindset from being the star to coaching the team. You move from âLook what I can do,â to âLook what theyâre capable of.â
Thatâs what great leaders do. They step into the role of mentor, coach, and guide. They give people the confidence, tools, and support to riseâand in doing so, they rise higher than they ever could alone.
Think about the best leaders youâve had in your life. Iâll bet they werenât the ones who kept all the credit or made all the decisions. They were probably the ones who believed in you, challenged you, and coached you through.
You remember them not for what they didâbut for what they helped you do.
Thatâs legacy leadership. And thatâs what self-empowerment is all about.
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3 Ways to Empower Others (and Grow as a Leader While You Do It)
Here are three ways you can empower others and continue your growth as a leader:
1. Coach, Donât Control - Start asking more questions than you give answers. Be curious about your teamâs ideas. When someone comes to you with a problem, donât just fix itâguide them through it.
2. Spot Strengths and Appreciate Them - People donât always see what theyâre great at. But as a leader - You do. And when you call it out, you help them walk taller. Make it a habit to catch people doing things right. Point out their unique strengths and affirm them in the moment. Empowerment begins with encouragement. Be the leader who sees the gold in othersâand calls it out.
3. Let Others Lead - One of the boldest things you can do as a leader is step back and give someone else the spotlight. Let them run the meeting. Let them pitch the idea. Let them solve the challenge. And then? Cheer them on like crazy.
When your team wins, you win. When they grow, your influence grows. When they shine, youâve done your job.
A Final Word on Legacy
You donât have to build a business empire or write books to leave a leadership legacy. Your legacy lives in the people you grow.
It shows up in the confidence you help someone build. In their career, they achieve because you believe in them. The kind of leader, they become because you modeled what great leadership looks like.
Thatâs what Self-Empowerment is all about.
Youâre no longer just growing yourselfâyouâre growing others. And thatâs where your leadership becomes legendary.
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When youâre ready to become the kind of leader who doesnât just manageâbut mentors...
Who doesnât just get the job doneâbut builds people up while doing itâŠ
Then letâs get you on a path to multiply your leadership influence.
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